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The one commandment of our "Reverse World".

Share .. be FAIR.

Sat., Feb. 19, 2022.

Stephen Covey says it best ..

"Win/Win is a frame of mind and HEART that seeks mutual benefit and respect .. in all interactions. It is thinking in terms of ABUNDANCE and OPPORTUNITY

(rather than scarcity and ADVERSARIAL COMPETITION)."

ALL in our "REVERSE WORLD" MUST BE WIN/ WIN .. seeking MUTUAL BENEFIT and RESPECT ..

finding ABUNDANCE and OPPORTUNITY in all interactions of compromise.

No win/lose allowed .. except in COMPROMISE everybody loses something .. but BALANCE is found!

Covey's Habit #4 .. Think Win Win .. principles of Personal Leadership

"The habit of Personal Leadership requires commitment to explore all options until a mutually satisfactory solution is reached. Win/ Win agreements clarify expectations by making desired results, guidelines, Resources, accountability and consequences EXPLICIT." Steven Covey

Being FAIR is being DECENT and using COMMON SENSE!

Sat., Feb 19, 2022

Today was INCREDIBLY windy, huge unexpected gusts. The Automatic bank door could not close, because the wind kept catching it. I tried to close it to be a good citizen and save the power use of the Heat that would be lost. Also bec. I love auto doors so I need not find a napkin to open the germ door. (covid is a joke .. if real why would you not teach people about germs? I was a germ freak BEFORE and am constantly horrified at the lack of any germ free behaviour .. but we shut the world down and were masked. (So dog pee and men's spit on shoes worn in the house is just fine? Yike! we have lost our brain wiring. Fine, I am an idiot to be a germ freak .. but then do not shut down my world!! That is what I mean we are insane. Women want to be equal .. but then why are you not taking EQUAL responsibility. kick a guy in the balls if he gets "fresh". You are EQUAL remember. yup .. totally brain dead we are.))

sorry my brain is like a wild horse .. what a mess! The wind opened door I tried to close.. could not be completely closed. As I walked on I envisioned the wind grabbing it and smashing a person walking by. OMG terrible! but if it was me I would not try to get 2 million $ from the bank .. pay my time lost and medical costs etc .. but why sue for something that was NOBODY's negligence? Same with slipping when effort was made to remove snow and ice. Just seems evil. You know .. the people whose kid got shot say suing the school for millions. I would not want 5 cents! Sure, enjoy a cruise on my Child's death? Who is the evil one now? weird.

So our watchword expanding on our "FAIR commandment" .. is DECENCY and common sense. You know .. what humans considered BETTER than animals are SUPPOSED TO BE? hmm .. strange how all us BAD humans HAVE animals now, in captivity and ignored while we are on cell phones. Whoops .. remind us these BAD people are NOT us quiet "mouse masses".. WE are the majority and we are already kind considerate thinking beings.

See "Division" and especially our societal "LIFE BANK"

Divided we WASTE so many resources .. fighting we lose PLUS we lose LEARNING from each other!!

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Loneliness, a problem for R B Thinkers, Us QUIET INTROVERTS

We don't need a partner or even to be sociable .. we just need to feel CONNECTED and that we BELONG

Tues. May 10, 2022.

I wonder if Right brain THINKERS are mostly INTROVERTS and creatives or inventors of solutions. This keeps us more working alone and "FEELING alone" is bad for our health. Work from. home will have BAD consequences in our Emotional health. If you have come to this site please no longer feel alone. ( I love doing things by myself, too lazy to organize date time etc etc .. but if I feel no one even knows me or cares I get sad. Please do not feel alone if your ideas and values match this site. We TRULY are in this together .. only entitled wealthy right brains are allowed. People willing to think about our problems and how to solve them. No shallow Left brains in our membership. On the Left brain spectrum is great .. you will get our ACTION happening. But anyone unwilling to listen to opposing ideas and re think and re consider .. is not us.

So like people together trying to fix a collapsing world hopefully make you

Loneliness causes all manner of problems .. drug overdoses

NYTimes, Dec 6, 2021 "Opioids feel like love .. deadly in tough times"

from the article ..

"Some of the biggest risk factors for opioid overdose are social disconnection and using alone. And the pandemic has been associated with high rates of loneliness. Szalavitz, who was previously addicted to heroin, argues in a guest essay today that policymakers need to understand how opioids work in the brain. “It wasn’t euphoria that hooked me,” she writes. “It was relief from my dread and anxiety, and a soothing sense that I was safe, nurtured and unconditionally loved.”

Opioids mimic the neurotransmitters that are responsible for making social connection comforting, she writes. The human brain also makes its own versions of opioids, which help the body control pain and are critical to social bonds." NYTimes

we need connection! all of us .. mentor! you can pretend you are fine alone but it just makes us more regretful and angry because everybody needs to feel wanted and needed on the earth. I know loners who SWEAR they need no one. I think it is a coping strategy .. a feeling of CONTROL. If I need no one .. they can not disappoint me. Understandable coping skill, smart even .. but just not the way our soul or spirit actually functions!

Suicide? School shootings? If we feel alone, unloved and disrespected all manner of problems arise

HAH!! People do not understand that a LONER, an INTROVERT by character can STILL be lonely!

We too can FEEL alone, although our character is one of WANTING to be left alone. Loneliness is a the forerunner of many of ur very big problems. But our desire to not be very social, confuses those going to bars and football games usually in groups. We loners feel better one to one .. so we are just weird to ACTION minds. (sorry .. Remember the R/L SPECTRUM!) They don't stop and say "but those loners invented .. for us through their obsessive "multi think" focus. Where would we be without them. Hah indeed! I started this website for us not so social "animals" .. so we see that we are definitely NOT alone and we can connect with others like ourself.

We are probably busy thinkng of our obsessive mission to solve a problem and don't want to be distracted. Yet we must feel connected, feel like we belong or we feel sad and "lonely". That is when trouble starts with ANY type of person! If we are a worrier (Right Brain thinker) we may feel worthless and commit suicide. If we are a Warrior, left Brain ACTION type we may find an enemy and lash OUTWARD instead. It is really sad the police get all our societal problems .. with no weapon or training but a GUN. And we wonder why problems occur?

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