Surviving .. We need to find New tools to help us.

If we have struggled long enough .. is there a simple RECIPE

.. A recipe we could follow to just get thru it?

Sun. July 31, 2022.

Everything we Humans now do is so hopelessly idiotic. We had a million rules to follow with covid .. but uncontrolled "deep fakes" development is just fine. No Laws to follow there! I mean with deep faking we could create movies without hiring actors. That is a totally important NEED, right? The fact that it makes a world already full of of lies .. 100 times WORSE to find truth .. is no problem, right?

We are 100% certifiably insane .. and those of us who see this INSANITY are losing our minds in an even more destructive way. I mean allowing 5G to destroy our brain wiring is ridiculous enough, but just allowing deep FAKING to multiply, surely proves our brains are gone . for sure .. at least in those who are in power. It is easy to gain power when the only thing in your mind is "me, mine, here, and now!" Contemplating past causes of problems and future consequences BEFORE acting, really COMPLICATES life accomplishment.

Being oblivious, shallow minded and selfish is EASY .. an easy way to live life. But living life envisioning consequences AHEAD of time, is HORRID .. especially when no one will listen to the serious alarms we raise. We somehow have to immunize ourselves TO KEEP OUT the effects of the disease of stupidity all around us. If we let the disease (of the disabled right thinking brain) overwhelm our mind .. it will eventually destroy us! Thinking can be a curse .. especially in a world run by those who do NONE of it!

Let's try to shut out thinking as much as we can often. Live NOW, the past is gone, the future too Scarry.

1) Accept ..

Life IS hell .. and we never even caused it! Nobody listened to our concerns .. they just kept on going the WRONG way faster and faster. Now we are at the cliff and it could have been prevented if they listened to us "negative" worriers. So are we going to waste energy sad, angry, resentful and ready to battle them? Or save ALL our energy .. and just go our own way .. create our OWN reality? ACCEPT it is all a mess, stop fighting it .. and find beauty, comedy or a smile in whatever still can please us the most. We MUST look after ourselves!

2) Believe ..

I think there are MORE of us quiet questioners! The screaming demonizing right left nonsense is not the nice kind people I learn of or talk to. They WANT us to think everybody is horrible. And some of us are just horrible because we are STRESSED selfish and shallow. Life is hard, everyday is a struggle .. so lots of people must simplify just to get by with their mind intact. Once they know we are here for them they will become kind again and able to discuss and compromise.

3) Control our mind .. seize it .. we choose the focus!

Even if that focus is ZERO .. nothing .. nada .. ! We slide down the "open" window our thoughts and our brain is now CLOSED. Closed for maintenance .. as in cleaning out the worries, anxieties, panic .. just breathe. The disaster will still be there, BUT this CLOSED MINUTE gives our brain wiring a moment to RE-group, get off that hamster wheel of terror.

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How to survive today .. coping tools

How to survive THIS MINUTE ..when it all seems impossible. Let's not waste time, or energy panicking

Tues. May 24, 2020. Memorial Day USA weekend ..

If it is hard to BREATHE because awful, after awful is piling on you with no end, at least know YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I just saw that the MONSTERS parents who think their kids are "special" are raising, invaded TO beach Sunday Nite. What kind of monsters throw firecrackers, caring nothing about injuring people never mind the fear caused by the sound and danger?

These sefish self absorbed NON humans are STEALING our quiet kind QUALITY OF LIFE! NO MORE!! YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO STEAL our total SHARED RESOURCES of nature and quiet. We are going to start a WAR against the REAL enemy .. selfish, self centred oblivious to others needs MONSTERS!! If you are selfish just to cope .. "stressed selfish" and shallow having to simplify just to survive .. sorry you have to return from OBLIVION. Wake up to oTHERS. We are already living in enough hell worrying about rent due .. we do not need to add to our worry unable to safely go outside for a break. Smarten up and consider others well being OR get off our ISLAND!

Those of us will to consider others and be kind and considerate, let's try this quick COPING TOOL RECIPE :

Step 1 .. WE CONTROL US .. feel it first with our body and brain, that will let us control our MIND

BREATHE .. just stop, breathe deeply and SHUT DOWN OUR MIND. let no .. ZERO thoughts enter!
MIND EMPTY? Now, CONTROL OUR BREATHING. Nobody can take away our control, show it with control first of our OWN body. Calm deep breathing with not even ONE thought in our brain.
Now BE SURE NO MUSCLES ARE TIGHT. So our ONLY THOUGHT is us and OUR body.

Step 2 .. Now WITH EMPTY BRAIN .. what is our FIRST PRIORITY? What is MOST PRESSING RIGHT NOW? Forget the 100 things wrong to worry over, what is the biggest worry to fix first, right now?

Step 3 .. FOCUS .. What can we do to fix this problem first? the other problems can wait, we are FOCUSED.

Brainstorm .. we are no longer alone? What RESOURCES are available? We have been taught only time and money matter. We have much more available! How could we help each other?
Think CREATIVELY . A staff member here was going to be late for a midnight shift which would give her a black eye re GOOD employee. In a spirit of connected community the earlier shift girl agreed to stay, but not ask for the pay. Late girl got her husband to drive home earlier shift girl saving her MORE than the Uber would have cost. What a great barter trade creation! When we work TOGETHER .. EVERYBODY wins. And we disrespected employees must stick together. We are the ones who make this stupid "economy" work, but get little benefit from the value WE CREATE!
What other WIN/WIN plans could we put in place. Now we start to feel some CONTROL over life.

Step 4 .. Design the plan.

Step 5 .. Execute with kindness to our SELF in mind. WE DESERVE TOO!

Step 6 .. Pat ourselves on the back .. we are AWESOME. Take a little break and then do the same with our next problem and then our next. One at a time, things get a bit more manageable. especially NOT alone.

OUR "FOREST FUNGUS" COMMUNITY ..

We little guys have 7 million worries and it is totally overwhelming. Let's remember to pull the "Tree of STRESS and overload" APART and work on one twig at a time. Those in our community are the Forest FUNGUS, that actually KEEPS THE FOREST ALIVE. We are each SPECIAL unique trees, but can only be healthy with the actual CONNECTING fungus underground .. that supports our TOTAL SOCIETAL HEALTH.

Breathe, remember we control our MIND! Do not let "them" or "IT" get to us. BE OBLIVIOUS

Wed. April 6, 2022 pm

Left brain ACTION people live in the NOW. They do not think of a problem's past (causes) or their ACTION'S future (consequence). Left Brain Life is EASY, only in the NOW especially when ONLY CONCERNED WITH THE SELF. We Right Brains are anxious and worried because we ALSO consider others well being and our future is not looking good!

To survive the day or even the moment, we must come back to the NOW. Shut our brain down, calm ourselves and STOP thinking "what if .. ?" or "It is not FAIR". ACCEPT the world is crazy for just a moment. Every hour maybe we should just BREATHE and look after the SELF, coming back to BALANCE. It used to be a person had both brain Hemispheres, we first thought about a plan, analyzed its consequences, and THEN acted on it. In our "Instant Fast Society", more Left hemisphere people have NO PATIENCE for that slowness! They act fast, but with dire consequences that we now live in. No CONTEMPLATION of an action .. results in many flawed outcomes! We are left behind with the anxiety of our unutilized cause (past) and consequence (future) investigative thoughts. "They" win in "success" and not being STRESSED like us. So we must learn to STOP, shut down our brain .. breathe and clear our thoughts of panic. HMM! If we have a computer meltdown don't they say just shut it down and start it up again. HAH! We must do that for our own sanity!

WE have been living in the fable of the Tortoise and the HARE .. But in our world the hare won, NOT THE TURTLE. Fast and UNTHINKING has horrid results. We have to take over becasue the hare's win only leads to Toal collapse. To take over we must stop ourselves from having a meltdown. We must be selfish too .. for a minute .. look after OUR SELF! We Right Brain THINKERS usually forget OURSELF while we worry about everyone else. How easy for Left Brain warriors! They just turn the other into the ENEMY and attack. Meanwhile we try to UNDERSTAND everything and it is EXHAUSTING!! Stop .. take some time now .. and be BRAINLESS. Train your mind to TAKE CONTROL .. a holiday from thinkng. Just see beauty and appreciation

There are more of us .. quiet mouse masses. Mice are NICE! and we are the MAJORITY!

"They" say we failed are losers becaseu we did not work hard like them. HAH! our brains never stop working wondering how e could help solve problems and Create better quality of life FOR ALL. They are concerned only with self and family or friends. That kind of "not selfish" does NOT COUNT. God wants us to be kind and share with strangers too!

By creating this community we can come together locally, solve problems, yet be connected bigger too

feels good to feel not alone!

Do not let JERKS, RUDE zombie people take away our "sunny". Believe they are overwhelmed, not mean.

The jerk that took your sidewalk may be stressed, late for his 2nd job .. or if just evil selfish, why let "them" steal our joy in those spring leaves popping out of the ground. Giving them our anger means they took a resource from us! They STOLE good energy from us. They already stole our sidewalk .. and now they stole our positive energy vibration. SCREW THAT. No More! Let's not let that happened anymore. They leave us with less resources and if JERKS they won! If stressed they NEED our good energy.

All energy is shared. I was wrong in the 70's, teaching my science kids there are atoms and electrons. EVERYTHING is actually shared energy! We can either WASTE it (angry) or pass it on to help people! Hah! if nothing else, in pretending you are "listening" to me and we are LEARNING, maybe my writing will just make ME a better person? When my market friends raised my spirits yesterday, I came outside and everybody was nice and I helped others be nice by sending them positive vibes! it was a transformation because the market "support" raised my spirits and then it got passed on. The magic magnet found like kind people!

We need to keep all our resources to share between us .. not let them EVAPORATE to jerks who do not deserve our kindness. Do not take it personally .. they may just be overwhelmed, not mEAN. Let's give more people thatbenfit of the doubt .. and give them POSITIVE energy as they apss. They may feel it, be cheered and be NICER TO THE NEXT PERSON!

Maybe Heaven and Hell here at once means the energy vibration we CHOOSE?

The segment above re energy vibration gives us a lot to think of. We were not taught this in school of course AND we were made to feel it was "airy fairy", not for SERIOUS people. Hmm, another way to reduce our power or control? It is probably the only thing now that could save us, since we have messed everything up here! Coming together and BELIEVING that good begets MORE good .. is about all the resources we have now! We have wasted just about everything and destroyed civility, replacing it with division and rudeness.

Is it like our "energy vibration" is both heat and light? and we can use it up (be angry) .. or pass positive on .. leaving us all, MORE energy. Is that something like what monks speak of and believe? We are terrible at using resources well, we have no clue about CONSERVING! This is a great wake up .. how we have wasted so much .. and continue to do so!

Can we think forgiveness instead of blame and anger? More likely than not that horrible person I have sworn at for 5 years (the rude uncivil greedy one) is truly thoughtless. Stuck in his OWN tunnel because of the overwhelm. Do you agree if the person is STRESSED selfish or STUPID it is far easier to be compassionate? I always envision them thinking I am not important, I do not exist, the world (sidewalk is ONLY for their SPECIALNESS. I guess that is what after years .. turns you to raging "murder". My son says I am judgemental .. maybe THAT is what he means, instead of judging this rude person as totally self centred. It can instead be "stressed selfish" or even stupid as a COPING TOOL. That person gets my empathy. And in return I STAY CALM. If you are like me we really do need to take a CHILL PILL!

Is it possible to become NUMB? blank .. just half there? oblivious like them, just to survive?

Sun. July 31, 2022

I woke up today not feeling so distressed. To hear so many young people are ?suicidal .. or feel something new .. just no longer caring to go on .. the struggle having become too much. To hear this .. is surely the lowest point we can be at in despair, for the world we horrible old people have created.

I don't feel as despairing as yesterday .. so maybe we can be hopeful to at least reach a point of NUMBNESS? I guess I am just the perpetual coaching high school teacher .. because for some reason young people CONFIDE. I guess my "purpose" to move to this horrible Chartwell "home", was to get to know so many young EMPLOYEES! Not just THEY themselves, but many of their connections do not want to get up in the morning any longer. Does anyone in charge even KNOW this is happening? I do not hear ALARM BELLS and there SHOULD be! For now let's try to use forced oblivion as a tool to cope .. just being numb to all we see and not letting it even REGISTER in our mind!

Feeling panic right now? A helpful recipe ..

First, Stop our constant THINKING. We are the BOSS of us! Mind EMPTY! Just Breathe and appreciate.

Fri. June 17, 2022 .. I moved this first because it seemed more SOLUTION STEPS rather than more ranting?

Sun Dec 19, 2021. not yet edited .. see below .. "Gift of Calm" video .. stop and BREATHE

"Feel gratitude" sounds so shallow when we are wondering how we will pay the rent. But it really is true. What if we were also in a wheelchair, or almost blind, or could not hear birds singing? We forget to appreciate so many things, until we LOSE them. Then we are sorry we were not more grateful and POSITIVE.

Those who say "It could always be worse", either have never had it really rough .. OR .. they are one of those SO LUCKY SOULS, that always seems to focus on the sunny side! I am so jealous of those most lucky people! They own a RESOURCE that is golden! Have you ever thought of that? ".. could be worse" is better than a million $, because if you lost the $ you would still gave hope! Instead of crying that god hates us because we were not so fortunate to naturally only see positive .. we must LEARN to be like them. We must DISCIPLINE our mind to see only the coming sun .. and ignore the dark side. Or at least realize the darkness will pass for us too. Just BREATHE. Then we feel we at least have SOME control .. in our new life of NO control.

2) Feeling in control of our BODY, now we discipline our mind. Rebuild hope and possibility again!

We see the world is falling apart with so much demonization and disrespect for TRUTH. It all seems hopeless. Luckily Science and Religion are finally converging today. Apparently we can have heaven and hell realities at the same time! Let's step over to the "heaven side" .. the "sunny side of the street"reality.

I find myself seeing only the negative and forgetting any positive. 9 people on the street were CIVIL to me .. but I rant about the 10th who was worse than no manners. A BAD way to run my life if I want to ENJOY it! It harms me and the people around me that I give BAD energy to! We seriously have to ACCEPT there IS hell now, but we focus INSTEAD on the wonderful people trying to be kind and do good. we CAN discipline our mind to be in OUR control. We can see more of the GOOD, and possible.

3) Constantly REFRAME our attitude for our OWN benefit. We do actually GET what we focus on.

The above street example gets me a horrible community mindset, when actually way more people were nice and CIVIL. we SEE what we focus on. those of us always THINKNG must quit with that at our OWN peril. But we also take others down with our "Debbie Downer" (SNL). Yike I need to remove half this web site. Yes, it is TRUE that we are no longer as civil a society. But repeating it over and over helps NOBODY!

Ability to believe in the "LAW of Attraction", would also give us hope as we focus more on the GOOD. It is TRUE .. All our systems are crumbling and all we do is demonize each other. We should instead be listening to and learning from each other, to solve our problems with our opposite brain assets. (Right hemisphere brain people think, Left Brain act. Opposite resources that used to be balanced in our head!) If we can only scream at each other, where is there any hope for solutions? We do get what we focus on, so those of us who feel born under a black cloud will find examples to prove it. (But we actually just are the "thinkers" .. which makes life far more messy. and we often sabotage ourself!) Action people simplify, making life easier than the confusing complexity of contemplating everything with care.

Remember that "sunny disposition" person I am jealous of? They think LESS, and focus MORE on seeing good and acting on it. Unreasonable as it seems in today's failing society .. looking for the GOOD is our ONLY means of survival. The other option is being sad at having won the trophy for being right! "Stop! the world is crazy, nothing makes sense!". Looks like I was right all along, (confused for 60 years!) but wow .. it is no fun winning that trophy. (Seriously! I keep ranting at all the injustices and illogic .. like a crazy lady arguing about a cancer death sentence. Why not get life in order and then ENJOY? It is insanity to instead waste more time arguing!! (In other words, enjoy the time left, if it is really END TIMES!) :<>

4) Sad? Angry? Go out in the sun. If it is dreary out, Look at a beautiful object or Art photo.

Or .. if you love music it can raise your spirits. Whatever makes you feel a bit lighter, do it, frequently. Then try again to stop, breathe, appreciate and now, we can set about an action plan. What can we do to change things? Why not start by doing things you are great at, for others .. BUT CHARGE them. There are jobs that take me hours and you could do better in ONE! You think I would not pay you to save me some time? Most of us do not have enough hours in the day ..but waste some doing stuff that is so hard for us. Why don't we trade what is EASY for us and we all get more time? hah? Better than a BLOCKCHAIN Ledger because it takes no electricity. (Bitcoin uses the electricity of Argentina. Did I not say we are insane? There you have a perfect example.)

5) ACCEPT! Yes, all is hell, stop arguing that it's not fair. We will figure this out together.

It is such a waste of energy to argue that if it is end times it is just not fair! If you had a terrible tumour and months to live would you waste it crying .. or just get out there and say good bye to friends and places you enjoyed? Kind of a waste to yell and scream "not fair" .. yet I wasted my life doing that. But I had no one to tell me I was being an idiot. You have me! Don't waste the time we have left, like I did. We do not know the future, it may be far better than our worry is suggesting. Accept and EXPECT we can somehow change the direction we are heading.

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6) DETACH! AND QUIT GIVING OUR DYSTOPIAN HELL MORE OF OUR ENERGY!

I was feeling all excited and working well yesterday, but saw what looked like an amazing TVO documentary about "FASTER .. Humanity's quest to save time" this part was focused on malls. Sounded fascinating so I took the time out to watch. Even 24 hours later seeing a image of a vandalized mall I felt great despair. Leave it alone already! We know that all we had as ritual is gone .. replaced by screen and selfie competition .. why re open the wound?? Am I stupid? yes! ACCEPTING, truly accepting means NO MORE descending into gloom on seeing yet another loss in what was a normal life. STOP ALREADY. I guess they call it .. DETACHING! Focus on the POSSIBLE other, or just NOT on the END. Maybe we can DETACH from our thought or premise taking over life, by imagining it as an ANCHOR weighing us down. BY DETACHING we envision our constant focus on (world end) as an anchor keeping us from getting out of this dystopia!

We KNOW a life of drones, AI and screens is NOT quality of life .. so why cry every time we see another loss? BE A ZOMBIE .. ignore! Be OBLIVIOUS. Why do others get to enjoy an entire life of oblivion and we can't even use it now as a COPING TOOL!?? Come on people .. we are going to detroy our health unless we GET DISCIPLINED! Practise MIND CONTROL! Yes I have NO DISCIPLINE EITHER , but it is either we find it or we will kill ourself with worry. Stress destroys our health. Our concerns, worry, anxiety can kill us by making all our physical AILMENTS worse! ("Anxiety" is just a new term for worry, so "they" can PRESCRIBE and profit from drugs. EVIL .. or just total "profit zombie" stupid.)

6) Once we ACCEPT, we can work on EXPECTING that we CAN change the reality we see.

With Expectation we can rebuild our hope along with a new system that works better. There REALLY is a "Magic Magnet" that can bring us what we focus on. Sure .. we still have to WOK for it .. but it will come easier if we BELIVE in it! Thinkers often bring themselves a dark cloud. We must ACCEPT that was not a smart attitude and we sabotaged ourselves! Meanwhile those who simplify and act with confidence get what they need. We must treat ourselves more fairly and use this scientific law to OUR OWN advantage. God or the CEO of the cosmos, thinks we ALL have value, NOT just those with MORE profit (cash) and POWER! Left brain action people just believe in themselves more, because they QUESTION less.

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7)Right /Left hemisphere balance is best. Our brains are fried. Can we trade benefits of each side?

This website is based on Dr. Iain McGilchrist's work, a neuroscientist .. see "The Divided Brain TVO"

Working together, sharing our opposite Brain RESOURCE, we could still save society from collapsing. Do you know people who are not extreme opposites like my family? I only hope the MIDDLE of the Right/ Left Brain Hemisphere spectrum, more balanced, is actually where the masses are. opposite ends clash and now even demonize each other. I cling to the hope my OPPOSITE EXTREMES family has made me despairing of ever working together. But that most out there can still listen to other ideas that differ.

Do you know people who can listen and learn from each other? .. people who hear a new idea and at least consider it? .. sometimes even changing their viewpoint? Please bring them to our community! All we do today is scream and demonize the other. Probably because the constant change and STRESS has destroyed all of our Emotional Health! To solve BIG problems we have to listen to and learn from each other! Consider cause and consequence, then compromise and collaborate. Can we still do that? America is COLLAPSING and their politicians will NOT even hear each other. Very frightening! I think our future survival depends on listening to OTHER ideas and working TOGETHER .. what do you think? the closed mind

Maybe RE-EDUCATING ourselves for trading our SPECIAL skills can give us HOPE

Why don't we trade what we have or are good at .. instead of working for "the man" DISRESPECTED? With the internet and all our apps and blockchain why can't we build a system to trade not one on one but like our own RECEIPT money was based on

LOOKING FOR THE GOOD .. even in bad, helps us feel more like we can cope

Looking at and trying to understand the experience of people in the WAR in Ukraine is horrifying. Plus some of us feel there is even more dire happening WHILE WE ARE DISTRACTED by this. Rather than wake again sick with worry what if we FOCUS on this being a Theatre of REALITY. One or a few BAD GUYS .. making life HELL for all the citizens of at least 2 countries (plus those on boundaries. But instead of saying "how typical .. we all pay big time while the power people feel little negative effect!" why don't we focus on the fact that regular people are AMAZING. The People of Ukraine who stayed are strong and brave and have COURAGE. The rest of the world has immediately come forward to help in whatever way they can. Do we want to stay stuck in Putin is not hared by no Apple or Spotify .. his people never started this war! OR .. do we want to FOCUS our mind on the brave and kind MASSES. Do not let the pwerful we hear more of steal our mind. We can make our mind work FOR us or against us. Let's discipline our selves to ALWAYS MAKE OUR MIND WORK FOR US, never against us. I think we as the right brain THINKERS tend to let our mind work AGAINST us. No more! we look for good and focus ONLY on that .. but also fixing what is wrong.

Surviving today's LOSS OF CIVILITY

Have we even progressed to the loss of our HUMANITY? It is quite frightening!

Thurs. June 2, 2022.

you will hate me .. but in all honesty, those MONSTER children below my 11th floor apt. are not human. Sorry .. but even animals are not so "uncivilized", very seriously. Perhaps the 2 or 3 with autism? have got the whole group of them screaming murderously for their entire lunch hour. With all honesty if my behaviour was destroying the quality of life of the whole community PLEASE put me in the asylum! I have no right to stress 100's of people becaseu I happened to enjoy screaming like I a being murdered for hour on end. I am NOT special and if I destroy others well being I am OUT OF SOCIETY. But sadly we live in a SELFISH self centred, self absorbed society. Or at least those screen faced zombies who like attention are next to evil!

Ahh .. the monsters are gone, I can actually breathe now, without stomach cramps, so tense from their completely ABNORMAL behaviour .. to complete later

Our CIVILITY is gone, but we are speeding on the way to loss of our HUMANITY

Is anybody even noticing .. or are we mostly just screen faced sheep (followers!) ant (worker) ZOMBIES?

The FAST decline from no manners to no humanity over 10 years, is terrifying

Overload and overwhelm have created a need for "Stressed Selfish and Shallow" behaviour. Just to survive we must keep tightly self focused not even noticing others. This decline to selfish is the spectrum toward EVIL. It has already destroyed civility .. the common decency in our society. Instead of civil Human Beings we pass mostly OBLIVIOUS ZOMBIES on the side walk. (At least I feel like a ghost because they always run me over.) Selfish "me first, screw you" attitudes do not create social good. The Left Hemisphere (action) brain has taken over the POWER STRUCTURE. Only balanced right (think), left (act) hemisphere creates quality of life. The toxins of shallow "progress" have destroyed our brain wiring. What is left is NO LONGER CREATING QUALITY OF LIFE. Are we seriously going to let this continue? Everyday in the pandemic, a new billionaire was created, and the old ones increased their wealth by 42%. While we struggle. Are you going to continue being a "sheep ant" or REVOLT .. quietly .. taking back our power?

There are more of us quiet, kind, still thoughtful RIGHT BRAINS!

If we get together we can work to build a new system that RESPECTS OUR VALUE IN THE "SYSTEM". We do all the work and get NONE of the respect .. in fact they prefer to replace us with robots. Will robots buy their stuff. They too are seriously BRAIN DEAD. They totally forgot all the crap they produce we USE. Oh .. except from the article above .. a horrifying new realization! O-M-G! I am not voting this year (today) .. becaseu "they " are all the same! They do not work for us they work for THEM. So it is worse than I even realize from article above. Those we vote for take OUR TAX MONEY and give it to the billionaires.

Guess they actually do NOT need us .. but then again .. HAH!! ROBOTS WONT PAY TAX. Even if they just print their own money, while we starve .. they will see how boring life is without us. No Art, no music, no cafes or celebrations. Everything fun is RIGHT BRAIN. Left brain are the action, manager, CEO's worried ONLY about profit and power.

We actually do not have much time .. we are turning more and more police state. Why have we heard NOTHING more about the pellets gun guy the police murdered? Oh, but there were scared parents the police had to help out. Well, I hope they are FINE with it when the police just shoot their own kid .. because he looked Scarry. Sad, how we never even noticed how FEARFUL, OBLIVIOUS TO ALL ZOMBIE we became!

There are more of us! Together, we can build a "REVERSE World" .. a SYSTEM that respects our value.

With a little SACRIFICE we can RE-Pioneer a BETTER SYSTEM. Do we still have the kind of courage and patience the pioneers had? Are we still brave enough to not need fast, and convenient, our every desire attended to instantly? If we are brave and sacrifice we can build a new SYSTEM from all our BACKWARD broken ones. It is possible to build a new simple SYSTEM trading our VALUE in a "FAIR SHARE" BLOCKCHAIN Ledger. Not a single one of our systems work for us. Not Health "care", Not "Education", Not Law and "Order" or our Justice system .. none of them actually work for US, quiet church mice.

The SILO systems were never meant to work for us, but I am a VERY slow learner. All my life I screamed "why does nothing work?" My mistake .. works fine .. just not meant to work FOR US! OUR capitalist "democracy" works only for those who profit or gain power. See article above how wealth catapulted for them while we struggled during a "plandemic". That's what we get for being ZOMBIES. Although that too was all their plan. Wheat and sugar and then stress and search FRIED our brains. Hopefully together we can REBALANCE the Left action and Right FIRST THINKING hemisphere functions.

With our individual expertise and talent we can build a non silo system that works better. We CAN do it if we all get involved and it WILL work better. "Be sure to vote" is a distraction .. what good does it do? they ALL look after their own interests. "$ Vote" by REMOVING your $ and LACK of support for their brand. Dollar voting is the only WEAPON we have .. plus refusing to work for evil companies. We will trade our skills with each other .. and those companies who are still HUMAN. But it will take SELF DISCIPLINE! That is something THEY worked very hard to DESTROY in us! Link Can we still WIN? Let's at least try! It gives us a new hope!

So much STRESS creates HOPELESSNESS, despair and anger.

WE have lost all REAL quality of life. Our EXTREME shallow society of competition leads only to overload and OVERWHELM. Without financial SECURITY, CONTINUITY of routines, and real CONNECTIONS, it feels more like Digital DYSTOPIA. We have APPS and "tools" for everything imaginable, except to feel valued, respected and SECURE in our REAL needs for life. You will notice I keep saying "REAL" becasue nothing seems to BE the word it forms. Health "care" is drug profiteering. Education is a source of debt (where no REAL Life managing intelligence is focused on.) The "economy" only works forTHEM as does Law and order and "justice".

Does it seem reasonable that if we treat each other with respect, and do not act selfishly, that less people WOULD act out? Police are there for people we have failed. A human has genes which can cause trouble but more important is the norture, the other resources he received at birth. Some people receive NONE and of corse their life is harder. But seeing others struggle and being kind, can save their life literally. Working together and sharing our resources, even just being supportive means so much less is wasted! NYC spends 1/2 million to incarcerate!! Could that not be better spent to prevent the bad behaviour to BEGIN? Sure there are people whose brain is evil because it lacks "compassion wiring", but they are few and far between.

OCCUPY 2012, Protests, Marches .. nothing worked, because no SACRIFICE was made. We need to STRIKE!

Fri. June 3, 2022. (edited)

Nothing worked because it only involved showing up. No self discipline was taken to REALLY make change. The only way anything changes, is if we MAKE it change by taking responsibility. Lots of us quitting things that destroy our future WILL be heard! Quietly .. everybody thinks loud is the answwer. No, we will quietly take charge by bowing out.

Sadly boomers were happy "just love everybody" hippies, but then sat back and let everything go to hell! OR worse .. selfishly helped it! We left you this MAJOR mess which is mass UNFAIR .. but unless we quit supporting Corporations that run our lives .. nothing will be different. You can take a Sunday protesting, BUT it won't work. The only thing that will work is our taking responsibility to SACRIFICE some of the nonsense in our lives. Mennonites STILL do it. Surely we have the courage left to quit Amazon or anyone who is not a GOOD global citizen. 5G is destroying our brain faster and faster. We need Steven King's dome! Maybe Elon Musk would sponsor it for us?! Our creativity and invention together can still fix this!

If you have nothing to do with those companies that have taken over our lives .. they can NOT succeed in the same way. They will have less control. But it would take SACRIFICE, an ability Western Civilization has probably lost. Please PROOVE me WRONG right now! I know it is hard .. like me telling my kids NOT to shop Walmart 20 years ago, when it was the cheapest they could find with their budget that was half of mine! But wherever you can support small biz OR companies that are decent .. like Costco, who was long before C S R became a trick marketing tool, paying employees FAR better!

Let's prepare now for next May 1st, 2023. Isn't that the historic "Workers Unite" date? we can ALL STRIKE together and stop the world. WE, not they .. are the real ones who make everything happened. Corporations would have almost a year to partner with us .. to be CERTIFIED FAIR R3 C6. They get the SPONSOR value of working with us to restore quality of life! We get funds to build a REAL "church" Library cafe location for us to connect, and re learn basic LIFE SKILLS. And later we develop a full CO-OPERATIVE Community neighbourhood replacing the "systems" that do not work for us. Corporations and Govt's partner for the license of our TOTAL SOCIETAL HEALTH system .. which includes Health subscriptions and "Gift of Calm TV" produced by PTSD Disabled Veterans.

Without SECURITY, CONTINUITY, and a feeling of CONNECTION vs division, we can't continue to SURVIVE

How to survive today

georgio and RALPH

Sun. July31, 2022.

When will I learn to be smart like GEORGIO??? I continue trying to teach the "Ralph's ! BUT THEY ARE UNTEACHABLE!!! TheirRight thinkng listen hear learn think reconsider ABILITY is GONE!! Why have I wasted my life talking to those who can not HEAR new hopefully BETTER ideas? I am an idiot. Do NOT be ;ike me! what a waste of resources .. no wpnder I am depressed all the time. I deserve the TROPHY for best WASTER!

To stop our panic, Breathe first, and then APPRECIATE

"Take a 2 minute vacation" to Stop, Breathe and Appreciate. Apparently the most important part of deep Breathing, is the SLOWED EXHALING. Slowing down breathing OUT, actually PHYSICALLY helps the body calm down. Once WE FEEL IN CONTROL of our body, we can work on controlling our mind. Some of us have already lost everything. But we can still be grateful we at least can either still walk? see? hear? or be able to THINK to build solutions. We do still have many RESOURCES, and THE CHOICE TO HOPE!

Breathe, Reframe, Focus

Breathe! Once our body is in our control it makes us feel we HAVE control .. we can manage this! do something for 20 minutes and then check yourself. Us Thinkers can get lost on the worry hamster wheel going nowhere. Our energy is a RESOURCE to be respected, no wasted indiscriminately!Breathe! Once our body is in our control it makes us feel we HAVE control .. we can manage this! do something for 20 minutes and then check yourself. Us Thinkers can get lost on the worry hamster wheel going nowhere. Our energy is a RESOURCE to be respected, no wasted indiscriminately!Breathe! Once our body is in our control it makes us feel we HAVE control .. we can manage this! do something for 20 minutes and then check yourself. Us Thinkers can get lost on the worry hamster wheel going nowhere. Our energy is a RESOURCE to be respected, no wasted indiscriminately!

To calm ourself, we must ACCEPT rather than fight aimlessly. BUT! WE MUST ALSO take RESPONSIBILITY for CHANGING what is wrong! Having a BALANCED (think and act) BRAIN does not mean acting only for SELF. Do not ignore the UN-FAIR that does not affect you and yours! Being a "good" person means wanting FAIR for ALL. It means sacrificing to make quality of life better for ALL. If you do not need your job .. all the more reason to SUPPORT THE STRIKE>

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Understanding Right / Left Brain could calm us. But this article is wrong. (Similarly much of my site needs revision.)

Mon. Mar. 14, 2022. 11:30 am

Everything we thought we knew about Right / Left brain hemispheres is pretty much wrong .. this article shows it is STILL misunderstood. (I must connect with them) They have not studied McGilchrist's more recent NEUROSCIENCE, and are still stuck in the old ideas (myths?). eg. “It’s absolutely true that some brain functions occur in one or the other side of the brain. Language tends to be on the left, attention more on the right. But people don’t tend to have a stronger left- or right-sided brain network." explained the study's lead author Dr. Jeff Anderson. NO! WRONG! Once you read McGilchrist's work .. you start to see a pattern in people. Definitely there are Left (action) or Right (thinking) character tendencies. Once we understand McGilchrist's work, plus adding my (think vs do label) we can see it fits behaviour as we get to know people! Or we recognize why we struggle in certain relationships! Definitely we used to have more BALANCED Brain hemispheres, Now we must share the asset of both to balance thinking first, to then act with more knowledge! So we must read or listen WITH AN OPEN MIND to everything. We must rethink new different ideas, analyze, evaluate, investigate further and just study the REAL world around us. A whole LOT of work to find truth, and the HUMAN INTELLIGENCE it creates.

Yes, Truth is really hard to find and INTELLIGENCE takes patience. Maybe people don't LIE purposely .. maybe it just beats feeling confused? And Left brain Doers HATE feeling confused, so they attack. Right brains just turn confused into a constant state of WONDER and CURIOUSITY! This is very frustrating to someone who just wants to get the job done.The constant war is Thinkers jealousy at our inability to be fast and decisive like Left Brains .. but they hate our complicating and confusing everything. Shallow Right brains and Left brains are what cause our demonization of the other side. Instead we used to STOP, in an EFFORT to understand each other's point of view. Screaming at each other, will never allow the compromise REAL HUMANITY REQUIRES. We all get stuck on "facts" now .. instead of listening to how each could be partly true.

Symbolic triangle COLLAPSE vs a solid base to live by .. Wasting resources enraged at unfairness and injustice!

Sun. July 3, 2022.

Our Resources are scarce .. why waste them on UNDESERVING PEOPLE and USELESS ACTIONS? Exhausted .. and for what? Who is calling who stupid??

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How to survive today ..get through just 20 minutes at a time

1) Calm ourself, Detach, and accept

2) Stop thinking, MANAGE (control!) our brain to "NOW" and possibility

Worrying about the future or regretting our past decisions only wastes our energy. Think "what do I need now" to "win", like Left brains do. Except our Right Brain System is "win/ win" .. never win/ lose.

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